Women develop a code to discuss abortion on TikTok

Rebekah Robinson


Over the last few months, many people have taken to TikTok to express solidarity with those seeking support for abortions in what might at first sight appear to be unusual ways. 

“If we go down then we go down together,” a line from the song “Paris” by the Chainsmokers plays in the background while white-lettered captions pop across the screen. TikTok users of varying ages mouth the words to the song while the captions offer a room to stay in. Others offer to drive those who want to go “camping” if camping is illegal in their state. Some use “camping,” others use “learning to knit,” but the intention is the same.

They’re not talking about spending time in nature or taking up a hobby, they’re using coded language to help those on the platform who are seeking support to access abortion-related care. 

Using coded language to talk about abortions isn’t new. In the 19th century, for instance, newspapers would use a variety of euphemisms and supposed cures to stop menstrual cycles to advertise abortion options. 

There’s a growing concern about digital tracking and privacy around abortion access, which has prompted the development of a new coded language. But how effective can such a code be when anyone can access it on an open social media forum, when anyone can see what’s being shared and who is sharing this information. 

These videos, shared thousands of times with hundreds of thousands of likes, feature people offering support to help total strangers. While some get swept up in social media trends to demonstrate their support and generate views, many organizations work diligently with resources to provide the support that keeps individuals’ privacy and health at the forefront. 

Groups like Apiary for Practical Support, a non-profit that trains volunteers to help support those seeking an abortion, advise prospective volunteers that it can take months to complete a training and vetting process to ensure client safety. Additionally, for those wishing to volunteer housing support, the Apiary’s administrative team cautions that “most organizations will not be able to accept it,” to protect individuals’ privacy and based on some requirements from clinics to have patients “stay in a particular radius.” 

The warnings are not meant to dampen the enthusiasm of volunteers but to show that supporting those seeking abortions is a sensitive, complex task that requires a certain level of training and commitment. A thread on Twitter outlines the risks that could come with trusting strangers with such sensitive information, warning those to do their research before connecting with those who may be “putting their hero complex before your safety.”​​

Groups that support communities that need help accessing abortion argue that coded language, however well-intentioned, is less effective than supporting and funding existing networks. An Indigenous Women Rising spokesperson said, “The safety and priority should be focused on the people trying to access the abortion care they need. We can start by destigmatizing the word abortion itself, saying it loudly and proudly and often.” 

Check out our additional coverage of abortion content moderation policies from our newsletter and other ways of combatting censorship and disinformation with coded language on social media.


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This newsletter is curated by Coda’s senior reporter Isobel Cockerell. Rebekah Robinson contributed to this edition.